In an earlier blog post it was suggested that Sue's career as a mature aged bikini model was over (before it started). The 13 cm vertical incision straight through the belly button (that is a weird anatomical description if you think about it) stopping just below the sternum, complete with dozens of metal 'staples' certainly excludes her from the mainstream fashion world. Maybe 'Tattoo and Piercing Monthly' might be interested in a few discreet photos?

However, another opportunity may be opening up - that of the 'Enhanced Recovery' Poster Girl.

'Enhanced Recovery' is medical code for, "We know what is good for you. We have recent research findings. So we will get you up and moving very soon after surgery so don't be a sooky cry baby and complain that it hurts!'

As it turns out, they may be right!  Sue was out of bed and sitting up a mere 16 hours after surgery finished on Thursday. She managed to stay there for about 45 mins before walking back to bed (4 small steps). She repeated the exercise a few times on Friday and subsequently. Her drain and catheter came out on Saturday and her drip was removed Sunday. This  freed her to have a shower and to make (frequent) fluid management trips unaided. She is on a normal diet now (but holding off on the curry vindaloo for a while) but does need my help in finishing her meals!!!!

Of course there is pain, and emotional ups and downs, but in it all she has proven yet again to be a remarkable woman!

We were offered the option of Sue going home today - less than a full 4 days after the surgery - but we decided to leave it until tomorrow.... all things being equal.

PS: I am aware that some readers of this blog feel that I am not taking Sue's illness, and her surgery, seriously. Yes, I hear things! In my defense I will simply say that Sue approves each and every blog post. She knows how seriously I take her/our journey, and my commitment to her in it. She also knows the power of humour, and the 'lightness' that can come from it, as a key ingredient in healing, as in life.

I am sure it says somewhere in the Good Book "Thou shalt not take oneself too seriously" - or maybe not?

Actually, it DOES say to "rejoice with those who are rejoicing; weep with those who are weeping". Perhaps it is not too theologically offensive to stretch that to include "laugh with those who are laughing"?  Thanks for doing all this with us. It is a privilege to share it all with you.